Monday Taboo

Obviously i really dunno why this picture should be in my entry. Maybe it's just to describe the "taboo"

Assalamualaikum and Morning, my dear fellows.  It seemed like having a long sleep ----> "sleeping beauty" *wink*wink* oopps sorry i'm not that beauty, so i need to change it with beast.. lol and today i've just woke up. Why i choose today to back into blogging? Is there any surprise or a big event to be held? Okay.. stop using your brain too much as the myth says the brain has tendency to be melt when it is overheating as you over thinking, woww! seriously?? Okay the truth is, I lied. 

Back to the point, have you ever heard on the term *Monday Taboo* not 'Tebuuu' okay but 'Taboo'. Tebu is just a type of fruit to be extracted for juice and sell at Night Market or Bazaar Ramadhan for Iftar. Haha. I am  sure some of us are really familiar with this term. It reflects people's negative behaviors when Monday comes such as laziness, being late to the office, moody,  not energized, lack of motivation and low productivity because it is the first day of week for work and school. Truthfully this is a bad mindset.

So, as I want to rebuild a paradigm, I just need to overcome the negativeness inside me. Thus, i've started the new me in a day that people usually called it 'Taboo'. This as a symbol that I'm ready to change my 'old folks' thoughts. Monday is no more a bad sign for me but it would be a day that i should remember to put a gear and speed up for a maximum thrust. Are you ready for maximum thrust kids?!! *Everybody say Ayyai please!* Yeah no need to shout but its okay if everyone can hear you. lol

I just found a very nice and inspirational quote on one of my blogger's friends profile. I wish to share it with all of you, so everyone could be as determine, brave, independent and  optimist as her. Nurul

Life is like a book. Everyday has a new page with new adventures to tell, lessons to learn and tales of good deeds to remember. I appreciate every moment in my life as I may never be able to experience it again. So, be yourself. Have a great episode every day of your life ^_^.

 Dun forget to leave some comments here, Insya'Allah i will track you back soon. :)

Brave enough to lose your bf/gf???

I’m not encouraging you to break up with your gf okay~ :p 
Inquire to know what this post is all about??

 Feel free to read below. J

Girls are most affected when losing their partners?? Haha. True? 

I don't think so, because nowadays boys are also be affected too ;p

Today the post title is slight controversial right? Hmm, but this is the reality, people are too afraid to lose their bf / gf... Why huh? When we are in love, every piece of moments we have gone through with our partners is such fantastic. Sometimes, we are recklessly neglect the possibilities might be happened on the relationship we have built. We have no power to make the relationship stays longevity and maybe it's just raining in the middle of day ? Though I’m single, if I have a girlfriend.. I'm also afraid to lose her and to face off the segregation. But.. This is a legit risk of a relationship.

So how about you pal? Are you brave enough? Haha. Each human has limitation to predict the future and only Allah the Almighty knows. Nowadays, people put too much hope on their untied relationships (couple). So when they break up, most of them will become detested, regretful, frustrated which tend to do crazy acts such as taking a prompt decision to end of their life?! What the fish huh?! Why people are in love are such fools? Love can come and go. That’s its fate! So why should we end up our life or do anything could ruin our life though there are still other loves in this universe, and remember that Allah is the One who loves His slave.  So, there are some simple suggestions and opinions that seem crucial to be shared with couples those are hot in love. J

 When in a relationship

·  Never put more than 50% of love towards our bf or gf
·  Protect your dignity, don’t do ‘things’ that are beyond limit of couple.
· Sincere and let he/she know our true selves. Try accommodate to what he/she likes or don’ts
·  Do the “Sunat Istikharah Prayer” to get a clue from Allah wether he/she is the best for us.
·  If we really hope that he/she to be our future husband or wife, do the “Sunat Hajat Prayer” to beg for Allah permission.
·  Tawakkal on what we have done, if he or she was not to be our life partner. Please believe that Allah has decided a better person to us.
·  Think positively but never give too much hope on the relationship. So that, when we are facing the break up, we will not be shocked and too much affected by the lost.

If broke up?

·   Don’t blame each other if the relationship did not succeed

·   Do a self-reflection, why the relationship does not achieve the target 

· Always holds tight on the Allah’s firman: "Women impure for men impure, and men
 impure for women impure, women are good for good men and good men for good women." 
(An-Nur ': 26)

* Maybe we are just not good enough for him or her. So let us change okay! J