Brave enough to lose your bf/gf???

I’m not encouraging you to break up with your gf okay~ :p 
Inquire to know what this post is all about??

 Feel free to read below. J

Girls are most affected when losing their partners?? Haha. True? 

I don't think so, because nowadays boys are also be affected too ;p

Today the post title is slight controversial right? Hmm, but this is the reality, people are too afraid to lose their bf / gf... Why huh? When we are in love, every piece of moments we have gone through with our partners is such fantastic. Sometimes, we are recklessly neglect the possibilities might be happened on the relationship we have built. We have no power to make the relationship stays longevity and maybe it's just raining in the middle of day ? Though I’m single, if I have a girlfriend.. I'm also afraid to lose her and to face off the segregation. But.. This is a legit risk of a relationship.

So how about you pal? Are you brave enough? Haha. Each human has limitation to predict the future and only Allah the Almighty knows. Nowadays, people put too much hope on their untied relationships (couple). So when they break up, most of them will become detested, regretful, frustrated which tend to do crazy acts such as taking a prompt decision to end of their life?! What the fish huh?! Why people are in love are such fools? Love can come and go. That’s its fate! So why should we end up our life or do anything could ruin our life though there are still other loves in this universe, and remember that Allah is the One who loves His slave.  So, there are some simple suggestions and opinions that seem crucial to be shared with couples those are hot in love. J

 When in a relationship

·  Never put more than 50% of love towards our bf or gf
·  Protect your dignity, don’t do ‘things’ that are beyond limit of couple.
· Sincere and let he/she know our true selves. Try accommodate to what he/she likes or don’ts
·  Do the “Sunat Istikharah Prayer” to get a clue from Allah wether he/she is the best for us.
·  If we really hope that he/she to be our future husband or wife, do the “Sunat Hajat Prayer” to beg for Allah permission.
·  Tawakkal on what we have done, if he or she was not to be our life partner. Please believe that Allah has decided a better person to us.
·  Think positively but never give too much hope on the relationship. So that, when we are facing the break up, we will not be shocked and too much affected by the lost.

If broke up?

·   Don’t blame each other if the relationship did not succeed

·   Do a self-reflection, why the relationship does not achieve the target 

· Always holds tight on the Allah’s firman: "Women impure for men impure, and men
 impure for women impure, women are good for good men and good men for good women." 
(An-Nur ': 26)

* Maybe we are just not good enough for him or her. So let us change okay! J

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